When Crissy Spivey bought herself a large one-bedroom, one-bath co-op in Brooklyn’s Ditmas Park neighborhood in 2018, she had all the space she needed. Shortly before she closed, she met John Richie, who had just moved to New York from New Orleans. Before long, he joined her in the apartment.
The following year, the couple’s daughter was born and they transformed the place into a two-bedroom with a small office. During the winters, they were joined by Ms. Spivey’s mother, Annie Spivey, who lives most of the year in Syracuse, N.Y.
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Having tripled, and sometimes quadrupled, the population in the apartment, Ms. Spivey and Mr. Richie felt increasingly cramped. They craved more room, another bathroom and even a little outdoor space.
“I’ve lived in New York for 22 years and never had a stoop to sit on — nothing more than a bench,” said Ms. Spivey, who works in advertising. “I never even had a fire escape that felt safe enough to stand on.”
So they decided to search for a single-family home, setting a budget of up to $900,000. The couple, both in their mid-40s, hoped to remain in or near Ditmas Park. They knew they couldn’t afford one of the neighborhood’s gorgeous Victorian houses. But they wanted to be close to their daughter’s school and the Q train.
Even the places they could afford needed a lot of work. “We saw things that were like a time capsule,” said their agent, Rachel Skumanich of Compass.
Ms. Spivey did much of the online hunting, while Mr. Richie pounded the pavement. “I would go through some of the neighborhoods and look for for-sale signs,” he said.
Off-street parking was an important detail. During the pandemic, the couple bought a car so they could drive to Syracuse and New Orleans. Now they use it to chauffeur their daughter to assorted activities. “If you have swim lessons over here or dance lessons over there, it’s hard with public transportation,” said Mr. Richie, a documentary filmmaker who is in graduate school to become a therapist.
As they hunted, they also needed to stage their apartment for sale and clean up for every open house, which they found stressful. “We had to remove the life from our life,” Ms. Spivey said.
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